Free guide for the betrayed spouse
Just found out?
Start here.
Your First 30 Days After Discovery, a free guide from Hasani & Danielle Pettiford.
The ground has moved under you, and nothing feels certain right now. This guide gives you a simple structure for the next 30 days, so you can take the next right step without making things worse.
What's inside
Where you are on the map
The 6-stage recovery map, where you are right now, and what comes next.
The three layers of damage
What infidelity damages: the affair, the individuals and the marriage, and which to focus on first.
A week-by-week checklist
Four short weeks, each with one clear focus and one small step you can take.
Journal prompts
To help you think clearly when your mind won't stop racing.
A note from us
If you're here, you've probably just found out. We're sorry. We've spent nearly two decades walking with couples through infidelity, and here is what we've learned: when a marriage is in crisis, time doesn't heal.
Time doesn't heal. Structure does.
— Hasani & Danielle